There are seasons in our lives when we pray and we pray and we think, 'God is not hearing my prayers!' The pain and disappointment we experience when what we hoped for does not come to pass can be unbearable.
A lot of our disappointment however, comes from a MAJOR misunderstanding about the nature of prayer. A lot of the point of prayer is to conform our will to God's will. Its the real us meeting the real Him. It's not about shooting up flares to get things from God. We don't all of a sudden get God's attention when we pray or fast. Some may even go as far as to conclude that because their prayers aren't answered there is no God. When we pray, however, there are at least FOUR ANSWERS.
The first answer is NO. We may not like it, but at times this is his answer.
The second answer is SLOW, slow down Joel, and this is difficult because we want answers and we want them now!
The third answer is GROW, God Is wanting to use this season and experience to grow you through your difficulties, suffering, an trials.
The fourth answer is GO. Yes, God will do what we ask. This is amazing, but it is just one of at least four possibilities!
Friends, God ALWAYS answers prayers. It just may not be the answer we are looking for. But if we trust that He is good, just, and loving-- we know that he is not capricious and will always look out for our best interest. No, slow, grow, go. Let's keep seeking his face in prayer, friends!
-Pastor Joel