Pruning and Prayer

One area in our life that needs regular pruning is our prayer life. It’s easy over time for your prayer life to become overgrown, distracted, stagnant, routine, less productive. Pruning takes your prayer life to the next level. 

My name, Deb, means “bee,” as in “busy like a bee,” and that describes my life. In that busyness, the urgent often captures my attention as I choose the “Martha lifestyle” — being distracted about many things. The  overgrowth negatively impacts my prayer life. True communion with the Lord eludes me, evidenced by a bunch of scattered prayers when someone or a situation comes to mind. Like unpruned branches they are “here, there, and everywhere” prayers. Sadly, like Martha, I have missed the pruning Mary enjoyed as she sat at the feet of Jesus.

Can you honestly say that your prayer life exemplifies increasing fruitfulness? Or are your grapes getting fewer and smaller? I want to encourage you to allow the Lord to show you what needs to be pruned from your life and start making some cuts.

Over my five decades of walking with God, I have learned  how I spend my time impacts my prayer life. When I say  yes to something, it requires me to say  no to something else because I can’t do it all. Unfortunately, when I don’t pay attention to this fact, my days become overfilled with stuff, and it’s basically all good stuff. It’s fruit, but it’s headed to overgrowth. At that point, I need to make some cuts. It means making sacrifices, cutting something out. Maybe it is saying  no to an invitation, or giving up a little sleep, so I can have my focused time with Jesus. It means asking Him — Jesus, master gardener — what needs to be pruned in my life? Warning: If you ask Him to show you, He will, so be ready to take action!

One of my most nourishing forms of “abiding” happens as I carry on an ongoing conversation with the Lord while carrying out ordinary activities that don’t require my full mental attention: driving on the freeway, folding the laundry, mowing the grass, etc. These have become sweet times of sharing my heart, thoughts, concerns, and joys. I listen for His voice and ask Him who needs prayer, who needs a call, or a note of love.

However, it’s easy for these times to become overgrown with unproductive thoughts, busyness in the brain, wandering imagination, worries about this or that. These can crowd out the free flow of God’s Spirit. They need to be pruned. 

The Discipline of Fasting

Lastly, a wonderful, healthy pruning process is fasting — occasional, regular, or ongoing. This spiritual discipline is a powerful removal of good or neutral things so that the flow of spiritual life can increase in the “branch” of my life. Forty-five years ago, Larry and I decided we would fast TV. Being TV-free has provided more time for prayer in our lives. Ask the Lord often, “What would you have me to fast so that I can bear more fruit?”

In John 15, Jesus made a promise and gave a commission. The promise is that if we abide in Him, we will bear much fruit (15:5). The commission is “I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit — fruit that will last” (15:16). As we abide in Him and submit to His pruning, we will produce the fruit of the Spirit that draws lost people to Him. So, go ahead, make the cut.